In todays society most people aren’t happy
or satisfied with themselves. Be it with looks or their
place in the world. You can meet someone and think
they are one of the most attractive persons you’ve
ever met on the outside and usually she or he
is struggling on the inside, wishing
they were smaller, bigger, or the woman will be unhappy
with her breast size, hips, lips, butt, stomach, nose, etc.
I’ve seen it time and time again and always pondered, “is
she serious?”
Michael Jackson
was a cultural pop phenomenon. He will go down in
history as one of the greatest entertainers to ever
record music and/or put on a live show. The saddest
thing about Michael Jackson is he was never happy in his
own skin. Michael always wanted to be something else, or
something that in his mind was greater.
Michael’s childhood
was taken away by his father in an effort to build the
Jackson Brand in the 1960’s. Many of us on the outside
only wish we had someone that pushed us as hard as a Joe
Jackson, Mathew Knowles or Richard Williams. Most of the
Jacksons appreciate what was done in those days and I
believe to a certain degree Michael did too, but he
would spend the larger part of his life trying to make
up for it. He resented Joe Jackson. When he first
started doing plastic surgery on his face he said that
he saw his father’s features beginning to show and he
didn’t want them. He didn’t want to resemble the man
that made him into a cultural icon. He didn’t want the
hair on his face, the afro, the nose, the skin color of
the man that he had grown to resent. Even more, he
wanted his childhood back. He had missed out on a lot of
the activities that most children do and take for
granted. He would spend a majority of his adult life
trying to get it back.
Most of the rest of us
hear these things and think Michael Jackson must have
been crazy. He wasn’t crazy. His life was on a larger
scale than ours and he was just like each of us that
have things we wish we could change or would like to
change about ourselves. The difference is, he had the
money to try to do something about it and he did. Maybe
it didn’t work the way he had dreamed or planned, but he
tried, over and over again to correct his mistakes and
that’s what gave us the Michael Joe Jackson of the late
90’s and early 2000’s.
There will always be
those that will attempt to throw these various things
into the equation when discussing Michael Jackson. The
bottom line though is there will never be another
Michael. He set the bar so high that it’s doubtful if we
will ever see his records broken. Other greats like
Michael Jordon, Wilt Chamberlain, The Beatles and others
who have done outstanding things see their records
threatened all the time. But no one will ever sell 27
million albums again, especially with the internet and
file sharing. That record was set in the 80’s though and
no one had come near it even before file sharing became
popular. We’ve also not seen nor will we in a
longtime, an artist that generates so much interest
worldwide that their videos become a national event. At
one point, when Michael released videos, there would be
such a buzz for weeks and everyone would anticipate and
watch the new Michael Jackson video the day and time
that it debuted. He generated that type of
buzz on, “Thriller,” “Bad,” “Remember the Time,” “Black
or White,” and “Smooth Criminal.” The next day at school
and work across the nation that would be the hot topic
of the day. If we ever see that again it will be a long
time from now. Also, for the record, the death of
Michael Jackson is like no other. I have heard
commentators saying, “This is like Elvis or this is like
when John Lennon passed.” No. This is like Michael
Jackson. No disrespect to any other artist. As
much as Elvis was loved, he was only a huge star for
around 15 years of his life. Michael had top ten hits
for 5 decades straight. He owned the 1980’s. So for now,
forget comparisons. From here out, Michael will be the
comparison.
Michael Jackson was a
genius, a phenomenon, a perfectionist, one of the all
time greatest dancers of all time. We may never see
anything like him in our lifetime. Its just sad that he
wasn’t satisfied with
himself.